it seems like all these people say they got to go back stage and talk to the band or meet them how do you do this because i hope to see them this tour and meet them.
Especially when they play smaller clubs I usually see J milling about before the show, sometime just outside the venue, once standing around the merch table chatting with people. If there’s a bar close by the club, chances are you’ll find Murph there immediately after a gig.