The second song was little fury things.
They also played Out There which may be the second "?" you listed.
The show was really great. The crowd was pretty sparse. Almost everyone moved up to the dance floor when J came out. There we a bunch of people going crazy. I think some of them may have been on ecstasy or something, which is typical for shows at the Mystic- I’ve seen people tripping out Cracker and Mazzy Star shows there too.
It was the loudest I’ve seen him. I saw Dinosaur in 93 at the Warfield and again in 95 at Slims as well as another J solo on the Martin and Me tour at Slims and this was by far the loudest which is saying alot because it’s always been loud.
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Oh I see you already listed little fury things. I thought that was second but I could be wrong.
I think the song you are thinking of is Kracked it goes "come on babe come on set me free…." I think they played that one too.