Murph is patrick murphy. they just call him that for short. Let me tell you…hes a nice guy. Its just that the world he lives in is party world 24/7. That is why my mother an him had alot of issues when they were dating for a few years. I think hes a very talentad drummer. He tought my sister how to play. My mother met him in 2005 when he was living in a half way house. He was an alcoholic an coke head. An whould take any pills he could get his hands on. Im not to sure if hes cleaned up sence then, i know hes been to a few rehabs within the past few years. Ihope hes doing better. I feel bad for him really. hmmm not sure what else to say.