"Jon" wrote:
people just seem really uncomfortable around me. i think i freak em out with some sort of weird vibe i put off, but really i dunno…
It’s hard to tell why someone ignores or is put-off by another person. It’s hard to understand boundaries, sincerity, balance, love, hate, empathy, understanding, meanness, etc… Friendships and relationships in general take such a long time to develop and maintain.
I’d say, if it helps, talk to a therapist–someone who’s outside of what’s bothering you. Maybe it would be good to have someone lead you to understand whether it’s your past, or a behavioral thing or the people in question with which you have problems. I guess that’s my advice.
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